That being said, I know it’s important for people to speak their truth and that part of that truth is not just communicating your lack of interest but that you find such talk so early on offensive. Don’t let what everyone else is doing change or influence your personal boundaries or limits.
You have to be really clear on that and set your boundaries accordingly. That only means you won’t be meeting the men you are incompatible with and that’s not really a loss.
If he respects them, then he gets the green light and you two can continue to get to know him. Yes, you might get some radio silence at first but eventually, someone will emerge from that rubble and will be similar to you with values more aligned to yours.
I am a single woman who is on a couple of dating sites and I’m fed up with a trend! Before you think about his needs or what he needs to learn, where do you stand? However, my bias here is that a man who leads with talk about sex really isn’t interested in what you think. Do not continue to get to know someone who disrespects your limits. Here are some things you can say: Just because everyone is seemingly talking about sex right away doesn’t mean you need to.
I chat with men online and within 2-3 sentences they turn it into sex!! He’s showing you who he is so believe him and move on. You get to decide what interests you, what you’re comfortable with, and what attracts you.
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He may worry that you won’t think him confident or attractive enough.____Men like that have been programmed to believe that they finish last. Pay attention to the men who respect your limits and look for the ones who don’t use sex talk to get your attention.
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