[Read: 6 ways to quit being a possessive girlfriend] #4 Making it about themselves. #6 Elaborating on a life plan without considering their partner’s input.
Commitment can be scary, because it means that things will change.
Some men want to get married immediately, but you are more likely to find a man who wants to test the waters first, before considering giving you a ring. [Read: 8 taboo topics to avoid in a new relationship] #9 Withholding sex until they get what they want.
If you’re looking to get a guy to commit to you, make sure that you never commit any of these common blunders. The concept of “now or never” can be useful at times, but not every time.
Some women end up asking their guys about commitment at the wrong time, just because the pressure got to them.
Their roles in society are perceived differently by the majority, and it influences how they handle their relationships.
Without the looming threat of a dried up uterus, guys have the advantage of time on their hands.
As the concept of dating evolved, women are now just as likely to reject the notion of a commitment.
It’s just that they rarely admit to it and will hide that fact behind the premise of career prioritization, not being able to find their one true love, and just plain disliking the guy who asks them to commit. Of course it does, because almost every guy uses the same excuses. Admittedly, the reasons why guys don’t want to commit can be different from girls’.
When you present it as something that your partner is supposed to do, he will start to question whether or not he agreed to it in the first place. You need to ask your partner about what he wants, and not just prioritize the reason why you want to commit to each other.
Unless you announced it as an ultimatum when you first started dating, you shouldn’t assume that it’s a done deal. [Read: 12 signs you’re being selfish in your relationship] #5 Comparing their situation to their friends. Comparing yourself to your friends is one of the things that annoy guys the most. Your sincerity will be questioned, because you seem like you only want it because your friends have it.
Unless their sperm count is dwindling to a mere 10 million, the ones who do want children won’t be inclined to run out of the door looking for the next fertile female in the vicinity.