We can hang out with our friends until 4am, travel when we want to, spend our money on whatever we want (within reason, ladies you probably don't need another purse) without having to worry about how it will affect a significant other or children.
Around this time last year I was still living in NYC and God begin to deal with me about being single.
I know it seems like everyone else around you is either in a relationship, engaged, married, or having kids but don't let that cause you to move ahead of God's timing.
Be patient because great things come to those who wait on God.
If you are single, you are not a loser and your standards are not too high.
Remember that a God written love story is worth the wait.
While I was walking down the street and I felt lonely there were times when I would visualize that He was walking right beside me holding my hand. If I can't find something the first person I got to is God.
When I would go grocery shopping I would ask Him what He wanted me to cook. No point of me stressing about it when He is all-knowing and already knows where the lost item is.
Also don't let the comments of your family, friends or society cause you to get off track or to become discontent with the season that God has you in right now. That He has things for me to do, people for me to meet, and places for me to go NOW! In the past 4.5 months I moved to Atlanta from NYC, joined a new church, started babysitting the most adorable baby boy (shout out to Logan), found ways to serve in my church, God's shown me new gifts I didn't realize I had, I started encouraging other women, I teach dance 5 days a week, and have met some of the most amazing and God-fearing people I've ever known. A great passage in the Bible about singleness is found in 1 Corinthians -35. In the same way, a woman who is no longer married or has never been married can be devoted to the Lord and holy in body and in spirit.
I'm here to tell you that it's possible to be a single, Christian female and be content during this season!!! But a married woman has to think about her earthly responsibilities and how to please her husband.
He needs to approve of what I wear and at times maybe even how I style my hair.
I must represent Him while in the streets in a good manner and not be tempted to look at other men because I am married and should only have eyes for my man.
The best part about my marriage with God is that He is with me for life and not even death can tear us apart." We are called to be ambassadors for Christ no matter what season of our life we are in, single or married.