Soon you’ll discover what you can expect and decide for yourself if dating one is worth it.
Whereas a Western man values independence and equality it’s not so for a Korean man.
Dating with korean
A decade ago many Korean parents were against interracial dating. If you can show your interest in Korean culture and willingness to join and help their family then you’re more likely to be accepted. In other words it’s his job to make the money for the family but it’s your job to take care of it.
They say that The reason for it is that their role and yours changes depending on your relationship situation.
Most Korean men value their family wishes and gender roles.
When it comes to family they heavily influence who he will be in a relationship with.
As a girlfriend he’ll treat you a certain way (nicely at first) but once you get married the roles will change and you can So a Westerner would either date more casually or if he’s a boyfriend he will live in with you. They’re not used to ‘casual dating’ as a Westerner would be (although that’s changing.) You can also expect him to not live with you even though you’re his girlfriend.
The reason is that Koreans only live together once they’re married.If you’re looking to hang out with him then he’ll take you to a coffee shop or Korean bar (hof.) If he wants to get even more intimate he’ll take you to a love motel or DVD room (if you’re in Korea.) Or you can simply invite him to your place.A Korean guy will try to carry your bag(s), pay for everything and even take pictures of you when you meet.They are pretty, cute, sexy, loyal, clean, sweet, fun and have an innocence about life that is quite refreshing.After dating a Korean girl, many men get “Korean Fever”.So it means that if you want to be with a Korean guy understand that you’re also going to be with his family.