You’re two different people which is why comparing yourself to others doesn’t solve (or help) anything.
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That she, too, had failed to make it work, and men would recoil from her in disgust, running for the nearest 20-something as soon as possible. That’s an attractive trait to men looking for a worthy partner.2. You took a swing at love, rather than just playing it safe on the sidelines.
But I for one, think being divorced can actually be a stamp of awesomeness to we men willing to look past the stigma. You placed a bet in the lottery of life, and while it didn’t work out, you can dust yourself up and try again.
And are maybe more willing to wait for the right guy than jump into something just to have a body next to you.
You don’t feel “incomplete” if you’re not in a relationship, and are maybe becoming a better person each day that you’re on your own..
Imagine meeting a great guy in a bar, or even in a gym, store, etc. In fact, listening to these serious and personal stories on a first date is a major turn-off for most people.
Instead, let your date get to know the real you—how fun you are, what you like to do in free time, etc.
That it doesn’t just magically take care of itself, and float along in a some happy, pink cloud surrounded by unicorns and cotton candy.
You know that both parties have to commit to supporting each other and making compromises on a daily basis.
If you aren’t confident just yet, you can simply confident; eventually, the confidence will follow.