Either way, you're not the only bloke to venture out of your age group in search for an older woman.
We're speaking in broad generalizations here, of course—age doesn’t say much about who you are as a person, and not all older women are the same. But generally speaking, one of the greatest traits women gain as they age is self-assurance.
They tend to have higher self-esteem and worry less about their bodies.
Ironically, women tend to be more self-conscious of their bodies in their 20s and 30s.
In my sex therapy practice, I’ve worked with gorgeous young women who've refuse to try certain sex positions simply because they worried about their stomach, thighs, or butt looking “weird.” Middle-aged and older women still have their insecurities, but they tend not to obsess about them or share them quite as much.
Tell her the characteristics you admire about her most and the specific reasons you're attracted to her.
If you’re in a serious relationship with an older woman, especially if she’s significantly older, be prepared for lots of blunt questions from your friends and family.
Older women also tend to have more experience, so they can be a lot of fun in bed.
Many women report they experience their sexual prime in their late 30s and throughout their 40s.
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