Or, the member may not have time to talk and, therefore, refused your request.
If another member sends you an invitation, you will see a box come down from the top of the Mingle2 page.
In that box, you can choose whether to accept or decline the offer to chat.
But I want to lay these out first -- because they're so vital to solid message writing -- and we'll get into the "whys" and the "hows" in a moment.
I was going to write about something else today -- I have a couple of big-concept posts I've been meaning to write up and get around to -- but, heck, the last post I put up was a big-concept post so I figured let's have a quick breather from that and get something a little lighter up first. I've been all too guilty of this myself -- sending super-long messages.
*note: If your IM is not working properly, make sure you have the latest version of Flash on your computer.
Also, phones may not be compatible with the Mingle2 IM program.
On the next page (shown below), there will be a variety of filter options for you to choose from.
Once you have chosen your filters, click the Change Preferences button.
If the member has the instant messenger enabled, is online, and is not in stealth mode, you will see a button labeled Instant Message near the middle of the profile. In addition, any other search you conduct will show which members are online.