”Kelleher recalls a recent incident with a client.“I was a matchmaker to a well-known, high-powered man.
I was sitting in his Bel Air home interviewing him and he had some friends over.
Not to falsely sell somebody but find qualities I really love, and I touch on those qualities.
I turn an icon or title or an unknown with an intimidating profile into a human.”In practice it can be difficult.
Margaret Griffith, who heads the New York office of Premier Matchmaking, says, “We get a lot more inquiries from women than men” in New York. It’s not the best of ideas to date within your work circle.
That sentiment is echoed by Amber Kelleher, head of Kelleher International, who adds: “What’s hard for women is you don’t know if the guy you just met is married or has a stable job. And as these women spend so much time at work, there is a lack of exposure. They go to the gym in the morning—not a great idea to date someone at the gym. ”But with more money comes more problems.“Men are intimidated by high-powered women,” says Kelleher, who has worked with Lady Victoria Hervey and Tia Carrera. Because of the nature of the city itself and working, you have a tougher skin.
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Online, Rich Women is simply the most effective way to indulge your needs.A young woman happened to walk past him—she was probably 27 and was a friend of his daughters’—when she backed up into a table and knocked over a ,000 vase. They offer a job, an education, looks, but there’s such a hard edge. But it’s hard for women in New York to not be the woman they are at work in their personal life. ” It haunts many women who’ve made it to the top of the ladder.Now anybody else, an older woman would have been so embarrassed, apologized, or been shocked. All guys want is somebody who is soft, feminine, who feels good. Women in New York are survivalists.”Ah, that old nugget again. Perhaps that’s why many powerful women end up in role-reversal situations.And if the women go out too much, it could hurt their reputation, says Amy Andersen of Linx Dating.“A really powerful, high-caliber woman, when it comes to her personal life, she should make it as private as possible,” she says.I do a ton of date coaching to play up all strengths: never downplay your smarts or success but dealing those cards in the right fashion, accentuating your femininity.