We all have sin issues that we deal with on a daily basis.We’ve all made mistakes that we often wish we could do-over.Take time to see how she responds in different scenarios, especially when under pressure.
You are not the one to set her free and your role is not to try to change their heart. The “Diva” generally refers to one who demands the center of attention and focus at the expense of others’ feelings.
Humility, compassion, love, and respect are much more admirable characteristics than simply the externals. The Gold Digger/Big Spender - Secretive spending habits?
The key is – does she realize it’s an area of weakness that she desires for God to change? Yet the pain or mistakes of the past should hold no control over our present and future. The Deceiver, Liar - Every marriage must be built on trust.
God redeems, sets free, and desires to make us new. Without this as a firm foundation, you’re in for trouble from the beginning.
More interested in your bank account or what you can buy her, than in you?
Once married, these patterns can worsen when the stressors of family life and responsibilities mount high.
If you hold vastly different beliefs now, don’t falsely assume you’ll get her to “turn around,” or change her ways later. Men can often become the invisible victims of relationship abuse and find themselves dealing with deep levels of shame, guilt, and inadequacy. Move quickly away from the one who brings you physical, verbal, or deep emotional harm. What might be disguised as “I just care about you,” can really be a need for constant control or a heart of jealousy.
This verse reminds us of how God feels about the heart which instigates violence. She may dominate and strive to make decisions for you, especially in regards to whom you spend your time with.
Addiction to alcohol, drugs, pornography, or destructive habits will lead to deep troubles ahead.