She’s still interested but needs a little more time to be comfortable. Cool, you don’t need to waste any more time with her; move on and find someone who interested in them, odds are that somebody else is too…and your online honey-bunny is talking to them, too.Needless to say, it was kind of an insult even back then; nothing screams romance more than “I’m interested in you but not enough to actually to join the site.” Fortunately most sites seem to have wised up and charge a subscription fee instead, but the vestigal organ that is the “wink” hangs in there like an appendix and does nothing but cause trouble.
This is the reality of 99.999% of people who use OKCupid or Match or Plenty Of Fish or Geek2Geek or Fetlife or Christian Singles or JDate…
really, dating site (with some notable exceptions).
The best thing about it, though, is that it’s a no-lose situation.
If you ask and she says “yes”, then congratulations! If she says “not yet,” but suggests maybe another time soon?
Why do all of that when you can meet women without leaving your house?
Flirt to your heart’s content without even bothering to get dressed!
Look, there are untold numbers of reasons why people don’t respond to online dating messages…
and they don’t necessarily have anything to do with never know.
By spending so much time trading emails back and forth, you’re bleeding emotional momentum.