My Interpretation: “I’m not looking for you, specifically, to be my boyfriend right now (or probably ever).”Not looking for a boyfriend, eh? Chances are, almost every girl is the exact same way.
My Interpretation: “There’s something in my life right now that’s important to my development and future, and I prefer to focus on it more than I want to focus on you.”School, professional career, family -- it could be a lot of things.
The fact of the matter, though, is that there’s always SOMETHING important and fundamental to our development at any given point in our lives.
It gives you false hope that somewhere down the road, she’ll definitely be more open to giving you a shot. So, start moving on and save yourself the pain of thinking anything will happen anytime soon. Maybe some other heavy, stressful situation or circumstance occurred or is occurring.
But, a relationship shouldn't be a chore and shouldn’t add extra stress. But, you’re bound to have a girl “let you down easy” with these nebulous, soft lies at least once in a while.
There are 24 hours in a day and nobody is completely devoting all of her attention to something during all 24 of those hours.
There’s always some free time to be had, and if the person in whom you are interested feels the same way, she would most definitely use some or a lot of that time on you.
Plus, it can be pretty damn scary jumping back into the unpredictable dating pool.
This excuse is similar to the one above in that it involves fear.
After couples have been dating for a while, comfort begins to set in.
Women can be fearful of losing that security and turning away from someone who’s been an important part of their lives.
Honestly, I guess it kind of depends on whether or not she immediately asks to change the time and/or date. but not too many more if this keeps happening.) And, yes, I do understand there are legitimate things that take up a person’s time.